I finally heard back about that little editing job. I figured after so much time having passed, I probably didn't get it. Still, I admit I felt rather disappointed when the official "no" came in my inbox. Sigh. Oh well. I will go with the philosophy that it would have worked if it were the right thing.
This week, the girls start school. Stephanie will only go for 2.5 hours each day, but that is 2.5 hours I don't have now. I know too well how quickly those little hours will go, how easily they can be lost on errands and cleaning and kitchen work...but with a master plan and a lot of discipline, I might be able to turn that time into some exciting new projects. We will see.
Thank you, as always, for your encouragement and support!
Thursday, August 30, 2012
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
Defining territory
Last night, the girls were running from Papa in a giggle-coated game of tag. They've taken to declaring just about any available spot "base" or "free" so they can stop at will. Last night, all "bases" were off. They ran and giggled and ran and squealed until Ellie demanded to know where was free?
Papa answered, "Switzerland."
Papa answered, "Switzerland."
Tuesday, August 28, 2012
School starts next week...for both girls!

We've known for a while that Ellie will be attending Sewickley Academy. A few weeks ago, Stephanie was screened for their pre-kindergarten program. Although the pre-k class is full, we were hoping they planned to make an exception and give her a spot anyway. Why else would they screen her mid-summer, right? Or not. They screened her so she can officially be the first spot on their waiting list. However, with just over a week until school starts, it's not looking good for her to attend. Furthermore, no other local preschools had availability in the morning either, which is her best time. I had never really considered standard preschool anyway; I always wanted Montessori until age 6, which also isn't available. Hmmm.
I have been more than fine with the idea of Stephanie being home with me again this year. I feel an awareness of how fleeting these younger years truly are, and I was happy for the time with her. Although she did well in her previous environment, she never really warmed to the idea of school. Or so we thought. Lately, she talks a lot about school. She misses her class, her friends, her teachers. She asks when she will go back. She's ready.
What to do?
This morning, we visited a small, non-denominational preschool run out of the Presbyterian church at the bottom of our street called FriendShip. It has been highly recommended to us, and just yesterday some moms told me the afternoon class only has 7 kids (everyone likes mornings) and 2 teachers. That sounded pretty good to me. I called and we were invited to visit. Stephanie didn't want to go ("I don't want to go to school!"), but after we checked it out, she didn't want to leave. I signed her up right away, and she will start the same day Ellie does.
I don't love that it isn't a Montessori environment, but it definitely isn't just daycare. It reminds me a lot of Ellie's peuterspeelzaal in Holland. There are weekly themes, alphabet learning, walking field trips (fire station, small grocery store...), but it's only 2.5 hours per day. She will still have mornings with me, and then she can play with other children and be in a learning environment after lunch until we pick up Ellie from school.
Plus, she's excited, and that's the point that really matters.
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
New opportunity?
For years, I've been wanting to expand my writing. Our crazy changeable lifestyle gives me every excuse (and often reason) not to, but I still want to do it. I have purchased two different new domain names in the past 2 years: the first I felt was perfect for me and the second because the perfect first name doesn't really apply now that we're stateside again. Hm.
Recently, I've really been enjoying the posts at DesignMom. This week, she posted some assistant positions to work on her site. I felt that the book editor position was right up my alley with a much more realistic time burden than a whole new blog for myself, so I applied. She has other applicants, many of whom seem to have well-known blogs themselves, but I was excited to try anyway.
Fingers crossed!
Recently, I've really been enjoying the posts at DesignMom. This week, she posted some assistant positions to work on her site. I felt that the book editor position was right up my alley with a much more realistic time burden than a whole new blog for myself, so I applied. She has other applicants, many of whom seem to have well-known blogs themselves, but I was excited to try anyway.
Fingers crossed!
Stephanie speak
Stephanie came to see me and moments later there was an odor. I asked if she "made stink."
She sniffed the air several times and said,
"No, it wasn't me. I didn't feel a bump in my bottom so it wasn't me."
Later this same morning, we were in a parking lot when we all noticed a strange smell coming from the street. Stephanie announced,
"It smells just like elephant fur!"
She sniffed the air several times and said,
"No, it wasn't me. I didn't feel a bump in my bottom so it wasn't me."
Later this same morning, we were in a parking lot when we all noticed a strange smell coming from the street. Stephanie announced,
"It smells just like elephant fur!"
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
Baby Lily
This past weekend, my brother Robert, his partner Christina and their baby daughter (my niece!) Lily came for a visit. This was their first travels with a baby, and it was wonderful to see them. Seeing my "little" brother as a smitten father is incredibly sweet, and having a darling baby in the house again, even for a short while, was marvelous. It reminded me and Markus of just how much our girls have grown and changed, and how quickly (too quickly!) it all happens.






Lily celebrated her first birthday last month, but we had a little party for her here too. I miss our life and our friends in Perth, but being able to share time with family again helps me know in my heart that this choice is right for us at this time. I wouldn't want to miss this.






Lily celebrated her first birthday last month, but we had a little party for her here too. I miss our life and our friends in Perth, but being able to share time with family again helps me know in my heart that this choice is right for us at this time. I wouldn't want to miss this.
Friday, August 10, 2012
Happy Weekend

What a week! I tell ya. When some women get PMS, they become homicidal. I just cry. A lot. Somehow, homicidal seems more feminist. Sigh.
But the drama is over as the hormones recede.
Whew!
I don't know about you, but I am looking forward to the weekend! Weather-wise, we are expecting a cool front (hooray!). Family-wise, we are expecting guests! My brother, his girlfriend/partner/lady and their baby daughter are coming for a visit. They are on the road right now, and we're all very excited. I've been cleaning like a mad thing for the past few hours (ahem), but the end result is pretty darn satisfying. Even the girls noticed. When I enlisted them in a major playroom tidy, my older daughter had a meltdown...but later when the room was all clean, she stood back, put her hands on her hips, and said, "I'm feeling very proud of myself!" Amen, sister.
Wishing you a wonderful weekend!
Thursday, August 09, 2012
Gossip: a twist in the saga
So, I just received a call from the pediatrician's office. He says we can see him after all. Which really begs the question...
What the heck went down yesterday?!
Part of me is very happy this is over with no apparent hard feelings (he is our neighbor, so we do have to see him from time to time), but part of me wonders what happened in the first place. Maybe he was having a bad day? Maybe it was the office staff? I have no idea. I doubt we'll ever know.
I smiled and said we would just stick with a different doctor for now, but to please thank him for thinking of us.
***
Ran into the neighbor who recommended him in the first place. I called her yesterday to ask about the urgent care clinic, but I hadn't updated her when we were dumped. She said she saw him last night and asked if he'd met us. She told him she knew we'd missed our appointment that morning but that I "felt appropriately bad about it" (I was in my crying phase when I called her about urgent care). She went on to say that she had told us that he would never leave us high and dry if a child needed care and that it would be all right.
And today his office calls us and offers us a place back in the fold.
Amazing.
Wednesday, August 08, 2012
The black brush
After months of settling in process, there are still a few loose ends. We still haven't met our doctors or dentist. I have appointments, but most required a month-plus wait. Our pediatrician appointment was this morning at 9am.
The girls are up so early each day that usually by 9, we're all starting to get a little stir-crazy. An appointment at 9 was perfect. Yesterday, I remembered to get the records ready. I double-checked them twice.
This morning was a lovely morning. The girls played. We baked muffins. We all sat together and munched and chatted until it was time to walk to their art camp...at which point I remembered our appointment. Nearly an hour too late.
It was a simple, honest mistake and I took full responsibility for it when I called the office to see what we could do, but I am still painted with the black brush. New patient who cannot be bothered to show up for her very first appointment, especially one with so many things (back-to-school physicals, prescription refills...) to check off the list. They let me know what that meant for my mothering skills. I wonder if it would give them satisfaction to know that after we rescheduled in six weeks' time that I cried for an hour.
The irony is that if it had been a stressful, crazy morning, there is no way I would have forgotten. I would have been eager to run out the door with somewhere we had to go. But it wasn't and I did forget. I feel bad, but that doesn't mean I am bad. I hate being painted with that black brush.
**Update**
Earlier, I was upset. I thought I was dramatizing a bit when I talked about the black brush, but it seems I wasn't.
Change "black brush" to "Black List."
One of the receptionists called us again this afternoon, saying she needed to reschedule us with someone else in the practice. She was the nicest person I had talked to this morning, and she said she told him I was very sorry, that I had called less than an hour late with an apology. She said the doctor had then told her that if we cannot keep our appointment, we cannot see him at all. One strike and we're out. She seemed embarrassed and emphasized that he made her call. Apparently, this isn't policy.
To add insult to injury, this doctor is our neighbor. He literally lives two houses down from us. The reason we waited this long to see him is because all the families on our street use him and rave about how great he is. Although we haven't met him yet, he knows he's our neighbor (another neighbor told me she told him about us and her recommendation). I'm glad he is wonderful to them. He has been awfully harsh towards us today. It's going to be hard smiling when I see him in the street, but I will do it.
In the meantime, I took my daughter to a very friendly urgent care centre, where they happily did her physical and gave us prescription refills. No appointment. No wait.
We were there when the receptionist called me about my Black List status, and the doctor we were seeing was kind enough to be shocked. She said she has not met a doctor with a one strike policy (usually it's three and sometimes not even then). At least I can feel somewhat reassured that this isn't what to expect now that we're back in the States. It has been a hard transition.
**Update**
Earlier, I was upset. I thought I was dramatizing a bit when I talked about the black brush, but it seems I wasn't.
Change "black brush" to "Black List."
One of the receptionists called us again this afternoon, saying she needed to reschedule us with someone else in the practice. She was the nicest person I had talked to this morning, and she said she told him I was very sorry, that I had called less than an hour late with an apology. She said the doctor had then told her that if we cannot keep our appointment, we cannot see him at all. One strike and we're out. She seemed embarrassed and emphasized that he made her call. Apparently, this isn't policy.
To add insult to injury, this doctor is our neighbor. He literally lives two houses down from us. The reason we waited this long to see him is because all the families on our street use him and rave about how great he is. Although we haven't met him yet, he knows he's our neighbor (another neighbor told me she told him about us and her recommendation). I'm glad he is wonderful to them. He has been awfully harsh towards us today. It's going to be hard smiling when I see him in the street, but I will do it.
In the meantime, I took my daughter to a very friendly urgent care centre, where they happily did her physical and gave us prescription refills. No appointment. No wait.
We were there when the receptionist called me about my Black List status, and the doctor we were seeing was kind enough to be shocked. She said she has not met a doctor with a one strike policy (usually it's three and sometimes not even then). At least I can feel somewhat reassured that this isn't what to expect now that we're back in the States. It has been a hard transition.
Monday, August 06, 2012
Papa chew toy
They call him "Papa chew toy". He is the entertainment source of choice. On a hot, hot day when we all would rather be inside, he still provides the best fun: "tossing" Stephanie and a serious indoor tennis match with Ellie the Champion.
Friday, August 03, 2012
Drawing dolphins
A couple of days ago, Stephanie called me downstairs to look at what she'd been doing on the chalkboard: drawing a family of dolphins!

She was very proud of her work. Usually, she prefers to colour in with markers or paint rather than draw her own, so this was a delight to see. Of course, the painting is pretty great too. She and I have been painting together most mornings when Ellie is at camp. Today, Ellie is home from camp (they are having a field trip from 8:30am-5pm which was too much for us), but Stephanie is still engaging in a morning ritual as I type up this blog entry to share with you.

She was very proud of her work. Usually, she prefers to colour in with markers or paint rather than draw her own, so this was a delight to see. Of course, the painting is pretty great too. She and I have been painting together most mornings when Ellie is at camp. Today, Ellie is home from camp (they are having a field trip from 8:30am-5pm which was too much for us), but Stephanie is still engaging in a morning ritual as I type up this blog entry to share with you.

Monday, July 30, 2012
And she's off!
We bought her the bicycle over a year ago. The initial excited enthusiasm lasted less than a week before her hyper-cautious nature kicked in and she refused to ride it. She was afraid she'd fall. She didn't trust the training wheels. She wasn't confident that we wouldn't let go. She just didn't want to. Training wheels or not (tho especially against the "not"), she would not ride her bike. Hoping to spur her along, we brought her bike on our family trip to Rottnest, where there are no cars and cycles are the best way to get around. She wasn't having it. She wailed at the thought and wailed louder when I got on her bike and rode it for her, trying (and failing) to make her laugh and spark her interest.
In the months since, we've talked about it as much as she'll allow. In the past weeks, I've pointed out all the kids riding without training wheels and how fun it looks. Lately, I have let it drop here and there that I intend for her to be riding her bike without her training wheels by the end of the summer. How I was supposed to get her on the seat was beyond me, but I figured we'd get to that somehow. I dropped it again this weekend, saying Stephanie could learn at the same time. Markus took the training wheels off both kid bikes that day. It was on. Sort of.
Then, tonight, Ellie spied her bike, sans training wheels. In minutes, it had been wheeled into the backyard, where Markus and I both enthusiastically assured her that even if she fell, falling in the grass doesn't hurt so it was no big deal. He ran with her, holding onto her seat, encouraging her to pedal or steer or both. Back and forth they went as I ferried dinner items out to the table. And then I looked up and saw Ellie cycling all on her own, at first just a few feet before thumping her feet down in triumph...and then around and around and around the house she went until she wore a track in the grass with the sheer thrill, the joy, the freedom of it!



Just like everything else she has ever done, Ellie started riding a bicycle in her own sweet time.
In the months since, we've talked about it as much as she'll allow. In the past weeks, I've pointed out all the kids riding without training wheels and how fun it looks. Lately, I have let it drop here and there that I intend for her to be riding her bike without her training wheels by the end of the summer. How I was supposed to get her on the seat was beyond me, but I figured we'd get to that somehow. I dropped it again this weekend, saying Stephanie could learn at the same time. Markus took the training wheels off both kid bikes that day. It was on. Sort of.
Then, tonight, Ellie spied her bike, sans training wheels. In minutes, it had been wheeled into the backyard, where Markus and I both enthusiastically assured her that even if she fell, falling in the grass doesn't hurt so it was no big deal. He ran with her, holding onto her seat, encouraging her to pedal or steer or both. Back and forth they went as I ferried dinner items out to the table. And then I looked up and saw Ellie cycling all on her own, at first just a few feet before thumping her feet down in triumph...and then around and around and around the house she went until she wore a track in the grass with the sheer thrill, the joy, the freedom of it!




Just like everything else she has ever done, Ellie started riding a bicycle in her own sweet time.
Thursday, July 19, 2012
Sewickley Academy
After much debate (mostly on my part), Ellie has been enrolled in the Sewickley Academy for the 2012-2013 school year.

When we first arrived, I visited Edgeworth Elementary School, the local public elementary school, and I was smitten. It was by far the nicest public school I had ever seen. It even made me (almost) wish I were a teacher again so I could teach in a school like that. It was that good.
But.
Sewickley also has a top-notch private school where most people like us (international movers) tend to go. Their system aligns fairly well with the International Baccalaureate, making an easy transition to schools in Europe. They use technology to enhance education, not replace teaching as I woefully observed in other schools. I was so impressed with their high school program (one of the classes is "Modern History of the Middle East"). Family participation is encouraged, and a broad range of skills are requisite (including mandatory dance class for all students--picture 5th grade boys in ballet poses).
The screening was fairly intense with over an hour of testing Ellie for skills (at age 6!), but she was accepted with open arms probably before the screening was over. I kept telling the admissions man that she was ready for Grade 2, and he was insistent on Grade 1...until he tested her. Then, he was all about Grade 2. As much as it annoyed me that he was so dismissive of my assessment, I was equally pleased when he recognised her skill level. The public school was also prepared to put her in Grade 2 just because I asked them to, but at least I know the Academy is putting her there out of recognition. Her age would normally have her in Grade 1 here, but she has already passed the skills they teach for that group. The admissions officer even acknowledged that she already has many of the skills they hope to cover by the second half of Grade 2. She will be well-placed and hopefully well-taught.
The biggest reason we chose the Academy is class size. There is a maximum of 16 students per class, though it may be 14 or 15. Ellie is such a sensitive, tender-hearted girl, and she has yet to be in a non-Montessori classroom. We think she will like the discipline and attention facilitated by a small class. I personally like that the creed of the Academy is "Curiosity, Courage, Compassion". Yes, please.
My worry about sending her to the Academy versus the public school was making her too different from the other kids, especially since all of the remaining 22 girls on our street go to the public school. I really didn't know what I wanted to do since both schools were equally good at this age level, and I debated a lot. There seems to be a touchy-sensitivity in public school kids towards the Academy kids, and Ellie certainly has a finely tuned radar for slights. However, while we were away on our holiday, the choice seemed crystal clear to me. She will go to the Academy, and I'll put in extra effort outside of school to help forge friendships locally.

When we first arrived, I visited Edgeworth Elementary School, the local public elementary school, and I was smitten. It was by far the nicest public school I had ever seen. It even made me (almost) wish I were a teacher again so I could teach in a school like that. It was that good.
But.
Sewickley also has a top-notch private school where most people like us (international movers) tend to go. Their system aligns fairly well with the International Baccalaureate, making an easy transition to schools in Europe. They use technology to enhance education, not replace teaching as I woefully observed in other schools. I was so impressed with their high school program (one of the classes is "Modern History of the Middle East"). Family participation is encouraged, and a broad range of skills are requisite (including mandatory dance class for all students--picture 5th grade boys in ballet poses).
The screening was fairly intense with over an hour of testing Ellie for skills (at age 6!), but she was accepted with open arms probably before the screening was over. I kept telling the admissions man that she was ready for Grade 2, and he was insistent on Grade 1...until he tested her. Then, he was all about Grade 2. As much as it annoyed me that he was so dismissive of my assessment, I was equally pleased when he recognised her skill level. The public school was also prepared to put her in Grade 2 just because I asked them to, but at least I know the Academy is putting her there out of recognition. Her age would normally have her in Grade 1 here, but she has already passed the skills they teach for that group. The admissions officer even acknowledged that she already has many of the skills they hope to cover by the second half of Grade 2. She will be well-placed and hopefully well-taught.
The biggest reason we chose the Academy is class size. There is a maximum of 16 students per class, though it may be 14 or 15. Ellie is such a sensitive, tender-hearted girl, and she has yet to be in a non-Montessori classroom. We think she will like the discipline and attention facilitated by a small class. I personally like that the creed of the Academy is "Curiosity, Courage, Compassion". Yes, please.
My worry about sending her to the Academy versus the public school was making her too different from the other kids, especially since all of the remaining 22 girls on our street go to the public school. I really didn't know what I wanted to do since both schools were equally good at this age level, and I debated a lot. There seems to be a touchy-sensitivity in public school kids towards the Academy kids, and Ellie certainly has a finely tuned radar for slights. However, while we were away on our holiday, the choice seemed crystal clear to me. She will go to the Academy, and I'll put in extra effort outside of school to help forge friendships locally.
Wednesday, July 18, 2012
Portland
We have just returned from a 7-day spree in Portland, Oregon. Though neither Markus nor I can remember who or when or why, it seems so many people over the years have insisted that Portland would be the ideal place for us to settle down, whenever we figure out how to settle down. It is a city with an airport (critical) but it's not big, not fussy, fairly liberal and green and very outdoorsy. We were told the lifestyle would suit us 100%...in the summer. Apparently, you have pretty much guaranteed nice weather from after the 4th of July until the end of August. After that, you are pretty much guaranteed that your favourite pair of wellies and a good raincoat will be appreciated. Hmmm.
We rented a vacation home in Lake Oswego, a fancy suburb outside of Portland. We found it via airbnb, and we'd say it was a cross between a bed and breakfast and a vacation rental in that we had the house to ourselves but the owner (Shela) was still there in the basement. It was quite an unusual arrangement and not one we would seek again, but thankfully she was wonderfully nice and so friendly with the girls that it all worked out ok. It was a lovely house, a historic home she had saved from demolition and renovated beautifully. She had saved some of her daughters' toys and had them out on the sun porch for our family to use, which the girls loved! Fashion Plates (which I also loved as a child) were the huge hit. Thank goodness I packed lots of blank paper and our colouring pencils!
We try to take it easy on holiday, meaning the girls aren't overtaxed but Markus and I are often under-taxed. We want to do and see, and we try to moderate. This time, we did a side trip on Sunday and Monday to Mount Hood and stayed the night in the historic Timberline Lodge (dedicated by Roosevelt as an icon of the Works Progress Administration). The craftsmanship in the lodge is stunning, and I felt privileged to see it and thankful we could appreciate and enjoy it. Our room had a king-size bed, a single and a roll-away, so there were plenty of beds tojump on sleep in. The pool has a view up the mountain and snow comes right to the fence. The biggest thrill, of course, was the snow! The girls were over the moon to play in snow for the first time in memory, and we were all very happy that we could play and wander to our hearts' content because the air was quite warm (80+ degrees F).
I have posted a ton of pictures in our flickr account, but here are a few of my favourites:



On the way home, we drove a different way so we could pass through Columbia Gorge and see the magnificent Multnomah Falls. There are many falls and a famous dam along that drive, but the girls couldn't have cared less. They have no love for long car rides, so that when we stopped for Multnomah Falls and got out for a closer look, they insisted they could see it just fine and could we please go home now. The perils of childhood in our family...sigh.
One of my oldest friends, Quinn, and his wife live in Portland. I hadn't seen Quinn in over 10 years (wow), but we were able to catch up on this trip. They made a lot of time for us, showing us all around Portland on Saturday. We met at the university farmer's market, ate lunch at a food cart (essential Portland fare), stopped in at Powell's Books (overwhelming!), played in Washington Park and relaxed with a beer and pizza at the Lucky Labrador pub. Quinn met up with us again on Tuesday and introduced us to another neighbourhood for good food and the most amazing ice cream at Salt & Straw. Then, we drove out to Sauvie Island so the girls could play at the river beach.
Portland was a great place for food and small neighbourhoods. I am a huge fan. The Waffle Window was a must-stop for us, and we went twice. I admit it. If you have the chance to go, do yourself a favour and order the blueberry cheesecake waffle. It's a Belgian waffle topped with homemade cheesecake pudding (amazing stuff!) and homemade blueberry compote. Holy moly. Is it over the top rich and decadent? Yes, indeedy! Order it and enjoy it because where else can you have that? Yum.

Wednesday was our last full day, so we visited the Oregon Zoo in the morning. Our girls are bit rotten on zoos (Rotterdam, Sydney, Perth, Singapore, Bali, Thailand elephant rides...), so they are a bit tough to impress. Markus and I, on the other hand, were very impressed. The Pacific-Northwest section of the zoo is built right into the forest setting, and it felt very much a part of it. The zoo was well-designed and accommodating to kids (you'd be amazed at how many zoos are not), building in steps up to high displays and even putting step stools at the toilets and sinks in the bathroom. Afterwards, we went back to the Waffle Window for a snack and then to visit a bike shop we'd found online. Being atypical tourists but tourists nonetheless, we bought atypical souvenirs: new bikes! I found a bike I'd always wanted, and they are going to ship it to me here in Sewickley. Markus found a very unusual adaptation piece that will convert his old mountain bike into a bike that can fit two kids on the back. It will take two weeks before we see them, but I'm excited.
On Thursday, Markus flew home with the girls and I carried on to San Francisco, taking my mom there for a long weekend as a birthday present. It's a big year this year, and we wanted to celebrate in a special way. Now, we're all home again and trying to settle into some sort of routine. The weather is still hot and humid. The air conditioning in the bedrooms is still totally inadequate. But we are so thankful we had such a fantastic holiday...and we can't help considering a move there perhaps someday in the future. As Markus said, at least you can count on the summers being fantastic, and that is his favourite time to be out anyway.
Every other time we had considered visiting to check it out, the time of year wasn't ideal. Now that we're in the States and subject to school schedules with Ellie starting 2nd grade in the fall, we figured this was our time! We went just after the 4th of July, and do you know what? The weather was every bit as wonderful as we had been promised! Escaping from over 2 weeks of temperatures near 100F and humidity to less than 90F, low humidity and cool nights (below 60F) made it a double holiday.

We rented a vacation home in Lake Oswego, a fancy suburb outside of Portland. We found it via airbnb, and we'd say it was a cross between a bed and breakfast and a vacation rental in that we had the house to ourselves but the owner (Shela) was still there in the basement. It was quite an unusual arrangement and not one we would seek again, but thankfully she was wonderfully nice and so friendly with the girls that it all worked out ok. It was a lovely house, a historic home she had saved from demolition and renovated beautifully. She had saved some of her daughters' toys and had them out on the sun porch for our family to use, which the girls loved! Fashion Plates (which I also loved as a child) were the huge hit. Thank goodness I packed lots of blank paper and our colouring pencils!

We try to take it easy on holiday, meaning the girls aren't overtaxed but Markus and I are often under-taxed. We want to do and see, and we try to moderate. This time, we did a side trip on Sunday and Monday to Mount Hood and stayed the night in the historic Timberline Lodge (dedicated by Roosevelt as an icon of the Works Progress Administration). The craftsmanship in the lodge is stunning, and I felt privileged to see it and thankful we could appreciate and enjoy it. Our room had a king-size bed, a single and a roll-away, so there were plenty of beds to
I have posted a ton of pictures in our flickr account, but here are a few of my favourites:




On the way home, we drove a different way so we could pass through Columbia Gorge and see the magnificent Multnomah Falls. There are many falls and a famous dam along that drive, but the girls couldn't have cared less. They have no love for long car rides, so that when we stopped for Multnomah Falls and got out for a closer look, they insisted they could see it just fine and could we please go home now. The perils of childhood in our family...sigh.

One of my oldest friends, Quinn, and his wife live in Portland. I hadn't seen Quinn in over 10 years (wow), but we were able to catch up on this trip. They made a lot of time for us, showing us all around Portland on Saturday. We met at the university farmer's market, ate lunch at a food cart (essential Portland fare), stopped in at Powell's Books (overwhelming!), played in Washington Park and relaxed with a beer and pizza at the Lucky Labrador pub. Quinn met up with us again on Tuesday and introduced us to another neighbourhood for good food and the most amazing ice cream at Salt & Straw. Then, we drove out to Sauvie Island so the girls could play at the river beach.

Portland was a great place for food and small neighbourhoods. I am a huge fan. The Waffle Window was a must-stop for us, and we went twice. I admit it. If you have the chance to go, do yourself a favour and order the blueberry cheesecake waffle. It's a Belgian waffle topped with homemade cheesecake pudding (amazing stuff!) and homemade blueberry compote. Holy moly. Is it over the top rich and decadent? Yes, indeedy! Order it and enjoy it because where else can you have that? Yum.

Wednesday was our last full day, so we visited the Oregon Zoo in the morning. Our girls are bit rotten on zoos (Rotterdam, Sydney, Perth, Singapore, Bali, Thailand elephant rides...), so they are a bit tough to impress. Markus and I, on the other hand, were very impressed. The Pacific-Northwest section of the zoo is built right into the forest setting, and it felt very much a part of it. The zoo was well-designed and accommodating to kids (you'd be amazed at how many zoos are not), building in steps up to high displays and even putting step stools at the toilets and sinks in the bathroom. Afterwards, we went back to the Waffle Window for a snack and then to visit a bike shop we'd found online. Being atypical tourists but tourists nonetheless, we bought atypical souvenirs: new bikes! I found a bike I'd always wanted, and they are going to ship it to me here in Sewickley. Markus found a very unusual adaptation piece that will convert his old mountain bike into a bike that can fit two kids on the back. It will take two weeks before we see them, but I'm excited.
On Thursday, Markus flew home with the girls and I carried on to San Francisco, taking my mom there for a long weekend as a birthday present. It's a big year this year, and we wanted to celebrate in a special way. Now, we're all home again and trying to settle into some sort of routine. The weather is still hot and humid. The air conditioning in the bedrooms is still totally inadequate. But we are so thankful we had such a fantastic holiday...and we can't help considering a move there perhaps someday in the future. As Markus said, at least you can count on the summers being fantastic, and that is his favourite time to be out anyway.
Friday, June 29, 2012
Childhood asthma
Ellie's asthma is very mild, but when a chest cold gets in there, oy. She is hacking away and has been for the past hour or so (it's now 2:30am). The weather has been completely rotten the past few days (extremely hot and stuffy--the air just doesn't seem to move between all these hills), and there have been severe poor air quality alerts for asthma and allergy sufferers. On top of that, Papa brought home a nasty chest cold from work nearly two weeks ago. She didn't get it too badly, but try telling that to her poor chest at night.
Unable to sleep, I came down to look up info about air purifiers (as if that would really solve it) and found a link to the 10 worst cities for asthma sufferers on WebMD. Pittsburgh was #4.
On the list of 10 best cities, the top three were San Francisco, Seattle and Portland.
I think I have our solution!
Unable to sleep, I came down to look up info about air purifiers (as if that would really solve it) and found a link to the 10 worst cities for asthma sufferers on WebMD. Pittsburgh was #4.
On the list of 10 best cities, the top three were San Francisco, Seattle and Portland.
I think I have our solution!
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Images of Egypt, then and now

This week, Ellie is participating in "Tomb Raiders" art camp at the Sewickley Arts Center. The focus is art of ancient Egypt. So far, she's created a headpiece, breastplate and cuff

and paintings of a mummy and of an Egyptian princess with hieroglyphics.

She loves it!
Funnily enough, this is also the week of much (more) upheaval in modern Egypt. First, she spotted a very confusing photo on the cover of the New York Times.

"This is Egypt? Do they have any kids?"
And then yesterday, the new Economist arrived.

Monday, June 18, 2012
It begins
The movers arrived with our container this morning, and our life in Pittsburgh officially begins. They were so fast and professional about it that six guys unloaded the entire container and were gone again before 2pm. The process was far less painful than we expected, and the house is actually bigger than it seemed. We're going to take it easy unpacking everything, focusing on the essentials first (kitchen, playroom and bedrooms) and slowly conquering each space from there. And it's a good thing we had planned to take it slow... Hubby started a horrible cough last night, and now he's got himself a fever too. Poor man. Welcome to our new home.
The girls are sharing a room that looked quite small until we actually put their beds, dresser and a shelving unit in there and saw a lot of floor space left over. Now we just have to get them accustomed to falling asleep in the same room. That has been wildly unsuccessful in the past, but we're determined to stick it out this time. At least we have the whole summer holiday for them to adjust before it disturbs school night sleep.
Our bedroom is quite small too, but we thought we'd have to squeeze our tummies in to fit past the bed to the closet...not so. Whew! Now, if only we could find where the Perth packers put the screws for the dresser...
There is a third, quite huge bedroom that is meant to be the master bedroom. It seemed a waste of space for the biggest room to be for sleeping only, so we set it up as a guest room/studio for my sewing, knitting and computer work. It already looks like a lovely space, and I'm excited we chose to set it up that way.
Tonight, I'm on kitchen patrol. I am determined to have that room ready to go tomorrow morning. There were sooooo many kitchen boxes. It was painful, I admit. Not one thing broke, but that seems expected when each individual glass was wrapped in 3-4 pieces of packing paper, such that 3 packing boxes were needed to contain them. Sheesh. I thought I'd never get them all unwrapped, but I did! Now I have to put them away in a kitchen about half the size of my last kitchen....but I can do that too (somehow).
Our last house was so huge that of course we knew we had too much stuff, but there was ample space to put it all so we let it go. In this house, there is no such problem. The house is a (big) downsize. We need to be selective about what we keep. I am thankful for it, truth be told. We rent the smallest house on this street, and I feel it is the perfect size for our family of four, plus room for guests. That huge house we had before was certainly spacious, but it never felt like a home to me. It was just too big. I'm hoping we can make ourselves a lovely home in this house. And the downsize will make it easier the next time we're looking for a home.
For now, though, it's back to work for me. The kitchen is calling.
Monday, June 11, 2012
We made it

Our flight was scheduled to bring us back to Pittsburgh tomorrow by 2pm. Departure from Gulfport would be 9am, so we were up and ready to go by 7. We marvelled at the girls' quick understanding of travel mornings, how they don't dawdle or fuss or delay at all and just get on with it quite happily. We appreciated what great travellers they are. We had no idea.
All day Saturday, it had rained, sometimes hard and sometimes not, but lots and lots of rain. Sunday was the same, but the rain came in storm cells of seriously heavy downpours. Dangerous storm cells, it turns out. Our flight was first delayed until 10:25, then 11:25, then 12:23...and then cancelled. I spent nearly an hour on the phone with customer service, and we were finally rebooked onto USAirways, getting into Pittsburgh at 9:30pm and to the apartment after 10pm.
Through it all, the girls were truly amazing. We are blessed with such incredible children! They didn't whine or fuss or meltdown (as most adults might have, let's be honest). They did so beautifully well. We felt so very proud (and in awe). When boredom started setting in at around noon, I drew a face on the bottom of a paper bag and used the bag as a puppet, which Stephanie completely fell in love with straight off. We brought the bag puppet with us. When it was his turn, Markus decided the puppet spoke German, and we have found a golden new way to practice with the girls. Neither could resist talking to it, but Stephanie especially was enraptured. That wrinkled old lunch bag came alive for her. She stroked it while she talked to it tenderly. She dressed it in her cardigan when the air conditioning was a bit too much. I'm pretty sure she talked to that puppet the entire flight from Charlotte to Pittsburgh (hours past her bedtime). I tried to take a picture with my phone, but the inside of the plane was too dark to capture the moment. Markus and I couldn't help but think how easily we'd been tempted to just go buy an iPad "so they'd have something to do", and how so very incredible are children's imaginations if you just let them run free instead. Wow.
Ellie was also a champ, but there was no surprise there. She is such a seasoned traveler. Now that she reads, she cannot be stopped. She had brought several chapter books with her, and she had those out. One of her new favourite activities is copying her books out, word for word, into her journal. She did that on one flight for over an hour. But the best Ellie story from yesterday? As we waited in Gulfport for our USAirways departure, she spent most of the time reading over the shoulder of a young guy's Sport Fishing magazine. He let her do that for ages. When he finally put the magazine down, she asked me to find out if she could have it. He wasn't done with it, but he let her borrow if for the flight to Charlotte. She read it avidly with an intent expression while he snoozed in the row behind us. We were so tickled. When we asked her what she liked about the magazine, she simply shrugged and said she liked sharks and it had sharks. Well, ok then.
Friday, June 08, 2012
Look who can crochet!
We are in Ocean Springs, visiting Grandmary. The girls managed to con Grandmary into crocheting them new baby doll purses, as it is so cruel and wrong that theirs are in the container and we haven't seen them in over two months. Watching her work, Ellie decided she wanted to crochet too. Mary taught her the chain stitch, and away she went!
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She is so proud!

Now she's on a roll. This morning, she set to work making the longest chain you can imagine a six year old child wanting to make. The chain is a scarf, a clothesline, a giftwrapping ribbon and about four dozen other useful items all in one. I'm not sure exactly what was going on in this picture here, but I think they were on safari, trying to capture something.

Who knew crochet could be so good?

She is so proud!

Now she's on a roll. This morning, she set to work making the longest chain you can imagine a six year old child wanting to make. The chain is a scarf, a clothesline, a giftwrapping ribbon and about four dozen other useful items all in one. I'm not sure exactly what was going on in this picture here, but I think they were on safari, trying to capture something.

Who knew crochet could be so good?
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